Every sign refuses to change for love at some point, and when the Moon squares Saturn on November 22, 2022, these three are the worst.
There comes a time in every relationship when we evaluate the rules and regulations we’ve established during our time with our partner.
As life goes on we tend to change in relationships too, sometimes we want our partners to change too. Sometimes we ask for too much. Maybe we want our partners to become completely different people, so we push them to do things they wouldn’t normally do.
And, sometimes we are the ones feeling the pressure. It happens all the time, especially between couples who have been together a long time.
If we cannot accept our partners as they are, we try to change them. Do we, ourselves, enjoy changing, or rather, being forced to change into someone we are not?
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No, we do not. And during the Moon square to Saturn, we’ll see this happen as we begin to notice that our partners seem less happy with who we are…and always have been.
Some signs will feel this more than others, actually.
During the Moon, we will use this Saturn energy and say no to our partners. Yes, they are trying to change us, and no, we are not going to do that…for anyone.
It’s not that we’re stuck or stuck or can’t change, it’s that we know what’s best for us and even a romantic partner doesn’t have the right to change us to fit their personality.
And so, today is the day we make it known: we don’t change for love, for them, for work, for anything. We’re happy the way it is and if they’re not happy with it, then that’s on them. Your movement, signs.
The three signs that refuse to change for love when the Moon squares Saturn on November 22, 2022:
(April 20 – May 20)
It took you so long to get to the place where you accept yourself “as is” and now that you’re there, you know how cool it is. Being you, being a Taurus…is the greatest experience in the world. Ultimately you love your body, your mind and the way you do things in the world.
You are always open to improvement, but you are not open to becoming someone’s ideal. You may notice that your partner is idealistic and now that they know your ‘fullness’ they want more…they want you to change. Change sounds great, but only on your terms.
You’re not going to be someone’s robotic side squeeze. they must either accept you as you are, or pass. You don’t change for love, not this time. the work you’ve done on yourself is great, Taurus. Don’t go back for the sake of someone else in power.
(July 23 – August 22)
After all, you’ve worked to become the person you are today, the last thing you want to do is change your ways because, for some reason, you’re suddenly annoying them by being you. Well, that doesn’t sound fair, does it? And yet, you can expect this kind of request during the Moon Square Saturn on November 22, 2022.
Not only will you feel betrayed because this person made you feel like you were perfect for them, just the way you are, but because you can’t understand why they would WANT to change. Aren’t you good enough as is? Of course you are and you know it.
When your partner asks you to change, you will see this request as the beginning of the end. That wasn’t part of the plan. you are supposed to stay together in love and acceptance, not as a work in progress that falls into place according to the wishes of one partner and not the other.
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(February 19 – March 20)
Today’s event, the Moon Square Saturn, does not make you happy. This is because you feel so good about yourself and for some reason, your partner can’t seem to see how great you are. How dare they!
You count on them loving you for who you are, so what is this sudden change of plans on their part? It sounds like the person you’re with has been influenced by someone in their life and now wants you to change as if it was their idea and not the influencer’s idea.
Your partner is in love with someone else’s idea. It’s not romantic, but it can do damage. It’s like your partner is under the spell of some cult leader or something, and now, they feel the need to change YOU too. This is inconceivable to you. You feel like you’re losing your partner and if the only way to get him back is to conform to the change he wants to see in you, then fuggedaboudit! It doesn’t happen.
Ruby Miranda interprets I Ching, Tarot, Runes and Astrology. She gives private readings and has worked as an intuitive reader for over 20 years.